Members-only swinger club with themed nights in Astoria

About this club

Caligula NY is a private, members-only swinger club in Astoria, Queens, one of the lifestyle venues that make up this side of the city's nightlife. It operates as a members' club rather than a public bar, and its evenings are built around themed party nights.

A night at Caligula NY follows the club's own format: themed parties, an on-premise setting and a guest list made up of couples, single women and selected single men who have come to meet one another. Adult guests meet each other by mutual consent under the club's own rules, and the theme of the evening shapes the room.

The door policy is specific. Couples and single women are welcome, and selected single men may join with a membership. At couples-only events a single male member must be accompanied by a woman. Every first-time guest must make a reservation, and membership is set up on the first visit. The exact address is given with the reservation, so the club is reached by booking first through its phone line or its own website and receiving the details from the club.

Who it suits: couples curious about a private, members-only swinger club in New York, single women, and single men prepared to join and to follow the house rules on which nights they may attend. Anyone planning a first visit should confirm the evening's theme with the club before going.